Doubt about the Route
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- what is the key thought in this chapter?
- respectful appeal can prevent conflict
- a respectful request you make to others if you want them to consider your thoughts, feelings, or needs when they are making a decision
- appeal
- the "head" of an appeal
- an "I message"
- the "tail" of an appeal
- a question
- what are the four parts of a STAR appeal?
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stop
think
appeal(ask)
respond - when you STOP in a respectful appeal what are you doing?
- stopping yourself from choosing to say or do something that will cause coflict.
- when you THINK in a respectful appeal you, what?
- think about why you want to appeal and about what words to use
- when you APPEAL or ASK in a respectful appeal you, what?
- use "I message" and questions, communicating your appeal in a respectful way.
- when you RESPOND in a respectful appeal you, what?
- be prepared to respond respectfully whether the other person anwsers yes or no.
- you make an appeal in 5 different situations, what are they?
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-when you make an unwise promise
-when you have information that others don't
-when you are wrongly accused
-when there is something you would especially like
-when you think that someone is going to do something hurtful -
a ---------- appeal can
------- conflict -
-respectful
-prevent -
if you speak
------------, most people will be willing to listen to you. - -respectfully
- don't ------ or ------ when you are wrongly accused
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-escape
-attack - if you express --------- in a respectful way peaple are more likely to listen to you
- preferences
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everyone has ----- and
-------- -
-likes
-dislikes -
communicate -----------
respectfully and resist
---------- to ---- or argure when you don't get your way -
-preferences
-temptation
-pout